Elder Law & Estate Planning
Request Consultation

Estate Planning for LGBT Couples

In 2015 when the Court decided the landmark case, Obergefell v. Hodges, which held that the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment guarantees same-sex couples the right to marry and these marriages must be recognized nationwide. In addition to its obvious implications for same sex marriages, Obergefell also created a ripple effect into other areas such as estate planning creating.

Posted on July 29, 2016
A vibrant LGBT pride flag symbolizing the legal recognition of same-sex marriages, advocating for equal estate planning and elder law rights for LGBT couples.

The Obergefell decision prompted significant changes in the legal status of same-sex couples in a number of areas including the recognition of same-sex spouses for taxation purposes and passing on benefits; one should not assume that estate planning for same-sex couples requires an entirely different approach. Rather, estate planning for same-sex couples adheres to some of the same fundamental principles that would apply to any other estate plan. These principles include minimizing tax exposure; avoiding probate (when possible); and providing asset protection for beneficiaries. Nonetheless, same-sex couples should be mindful of a few estate-planning considerations that are unique to their situation.

Although Obergefell settled the issue of the legal status of same-sex marriage, many laws which affect estate plans have not caught up with this change, thereby leaving gaps and ambiguity for same-sex couples in a number of areas pertinent to estate planning. However, it is important to note that, given this decision, states may not pass or leave laws on the books, which treat same-sex couples in a manner that is different from other married couples. Therefore, any gaps or ambiguities in the law are the product of the fact that courts have likely never had the opportunity to address estate planning related legal questions as they apply to same-sex couples requiring courts to create new legal standards on questions that cannot be addressed by existing case law. Given the Obergefell decision and our experience with other cases of changes in estate planning law, courts will likely just retrofit the questions raised by same sex couples to existing case law and find a practical solution to unique questions presented by estate planning by same-sex couples. However, there is the possibility that unique situations can arise that cannot be addressed by previous case law. Therefore, courts will need to devise unique solutions to these questions as they arise, which from an estate planning perspective can present problems, as uncertainty in the law can make estate planning difficult. In the interim, same-sex couples should be mindful of creating an airtight estate plan that will keep their estate out of probate court and the uncertainty and extra cost that could be created when a court must use its discretion to carry out estate distribution. Therefore, in light of these considerations, same-sex couples should leave as little to interpretation as possible when creating an estate plan. Thus, same-sex couples and their families are encouraged to take steps whenever possible to avoid the probate process through the use of trusts and other probate avoiding measures that offer a greater amount of control to planners as to how estate assets will be distributed. If assets cannot be transferred out the probate process, make certain that the distributive intent is clear in a will so that nothing is left to interpretation. Whatever the situation the most important consideration rests in the most effective way to adhere to the fundamental principles of estate planning while adhering to the wishes of the estate.

Counsel experienced in estate planning, specifically for same-sex couples can assist in asset preservation strategies.

DISCLAIMER: Attorney Advertising. The information provided in this post is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as a legal advice. It is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship with a reader and should not be relied upon without first seeking professional legal counsel.

More from our blog...

Vintage rotary phone in teal on a peach background with the words "Hang Up First" — how to protect aging parents from Social Security impersonation scams and elder fraud

The Social Security Scam That Costs Seniors Billions – And How an Estate Plan Helps Stop It

August 9, 2026
Someone calls your parent and says their Social Security number has been suspended due to suspicious activity. To protect their benefits, they need to verify…
Overhead view of strawberries being blended with the words "Yours, mine, and ours" — blended family estate planning in New Jersey and how to protect everyone

The Will That Forgot Half the Family: Estate Planning for Blended Families in New Jersey

August 6, 2026
Somewhere in a Surrogate's Court file right now, there is a will that forgot half a family. It was not written carelessly. It was written…
Two small birds cuddling side by side with the words "Side by side. Protected." — what happens to bank accounts when a spouse dies in New Jersey

Can My Spouse Automatically Access Our Bank Accounts When I Die?

August 2, 2026
Whether a surviving spouse can access a bank account after their partner dies depends entirely on how the account is titled, not what the will…
Overhead view of a cappuccino and pastries on a patterned table with the words "The Whole Picture" — specific bequest vs residuary bequest and how a will divides an estate

Specific Bequest vs. Residuary Bequest: How Your Estate Is Actually Divided

July 30, 2026
When a will distributes an estate, it does so in two distinct categories: specific bequests, which name particular assets going to particular people, and the…
Back To blog

Table of Contents

FREE WEBINAR

5 Things to Know About

Estate Planning

When You Turn Sixty-Five


    Save the Date

    Friday, Aug 14th at 2:30pm

    Privacy Policy

    This Privacy Statement describes how Milvidskiy Law Group P.C. collects, uses, and discloses certain personal information obtained through our public web site at www.milvidlaw.com (the “Web Site”). This Privacy Statement does not address information collection through other sources such as in-person seminars, workshops, or in-person consultations and contacts.

    SMS Privacy Policy

    Milvidskiy Law Group P.C. may disclose Personal Data and other information as follows:

    Third Parties that Help Provide the Messaging Service: We will not share your opt-in to an SMS short code campaign with a third party for purposes unrelated to supporting you in connection with that campaign. We may share your Personal Data with third parties that help us provide the messaging service, including, but not limited to, platform providers, phone companies, and other vendors who assist us in the delivery of text messages.

    Additional Disclosures: Affiliates: We may disclose the Personal Data to our affiliates or subsidiaries; however, if we do so, their use and disclosure of your Personal Data will be subject to this Policy. All the above categories exclude text messaging originator opt-in data and consent; this information will not be shared with any third parties.

    Personal Information Collection and Use

    In general, you can visit our Web Site without telling us who you are or revealing any information about yourself. There are times, however, when we ask for personally identifiable information from you, such as your name, company, e-mail address, phone number, and address (“Personal Information”). We request this information in order to correspond with you, to provide you with a subscription to a newsletter or publication, to notify you about events, or otherwise to respond to your requests or provide you with information that we consider may be of interest to you. Where applicable, we will differentiate between personal data fields that are optional and those that are mandatory to obtain the requested information.

    If you receive a marketing e-mail from Milvidskiy Law Group P.C., you will be provided with an automated way to opt out (unsubscribe) from that particular communication or from all marketing e-mails sent by our firm. Please follow the instructions on the e-mail you received. If you have received unwanted e-mail from our firm, please forward a copy of that e-mail to info@milvidlaw.com.

    Please note that if you reply to a Milvidskiy Law Group P.C. address in one of our marketing e-mails or otherwise send a communication to us, your communication will not create an attorney-client relationship with us. Do not send us any information that you or anyone else considers to be confidential or secret unless we have first agreed to be your lawyers in that matter. Any information you send us before we agree to be your lawyers cannot be protected from disclosure.

    Data Sharing

    We may share Personal Information among our member attorneys for purposes of responding to your requests or otherwise as necessary for the purposes described above. We may also in limited circumstances share Personal Information with government authorities or others as required to protect the interests of the firm or others, as necessary in connection with the sale or transfer of all or a portion of the business, or as required by applicable law or court order.

    International Data Transfers

    This Web Site is hosted on a web server in the United States. If you are located in a non-US jurisdiction, your provision of Personal Information or other access to our Web Site constitutes your transfer of such data to the United States, a jurisdiction that may not provide a level of data protection equivalent to the laws in your home country.

    Security Measures

    Milvidskiy Law Group P.C. maintains appropriate technical and organizational security measures to protect the security of your Personal Information against the loss, misuse, unauthorized access, disclosure or alteration.

    Links to Other Web Sites

    The privacy practices set forth in this Privacy Statement are for our web site only. This web site may contain links to other sites. Milvidskiy Law Group P.C. is not responsible for the privacy practices or the content of such sites. If you link to or otherwise visit any other site, please review the privacy policies posted at that site.

    Cookies and Passive Tracking

    A “cookie” is an element of data that can be sent to your browser. Your browser may then store it on your system based on the preferences you have set on your browser. Cookies gather information about your operating system including, but not limited to, browser type, and Internet Protocol (IP) address. The Web Site uses this information to analyze the traffic on our web site, and better serve you when you return to our web site. It is not our intention to use such information to personally identify a user. You have the option to configure your Internet browser to notify you when you receive a cookie, giving you the chance to decide whether to accept it. Further, you have the option to block all cookies. Please note, however, that if you refuse or otherwise block cookies you may not be able to use all of the functionality available on the web site.

    Access and Correction

    If you wish to access or update the Personal Information you submit through our web site, or to make any inquiries about the processing of such information, please contact us as described below. We provide individuals with access to their Personal Information where we believe appropriate, including in situations where you are entitled to access and review your Personal Information under applicable data protection and privacy laws.

    Google ReCaptcha Spam Protection

    This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google.
    Privacy Policy and
    Terms of Serice apply.

    Revisions to this Privacy Statement

    Milvidskiy Law Group P.C. reserves the right to change this Privacy Policy from time to time. Please check the Privacy Statement frequently and particularly before you submit additional personal information via the Web Site. All revisions to this Privacy Statement will be posted on the web site via a link from the homepage. We also display the effective date of the Privacy Statement on the top of this page.

    Close

    Disclaimer

    Attorney Advertising. The information presented on this website is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as a legal advice. Viewing of, responding to, or otherwise transmitting the information on this website is not intended to create, and receipt of the same does not constitute, an attorney-client relationship. The information provided on this website should not be relied upon without first seeking professional legal counsel. The information on this website is provided only as general information which may or may not reflect the most current developments of law. Prior results and cases discussed on this website do not imply and do not guarantee a similar outcome in any other case. The links to other websites contained herein do not constitute a referral or endorsement of any kind.
    Close
    Sign up for our newsletter to be updated on all the latest news in Elder Law and Estate Planning.

      Every plan starts with a conversation. Tell us a little about your situation, and our Client Services Coordinator will reach out to help you schedule your consultation.

        This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google.
        Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.

        Open chat Call us Close chat
        Start a conversation
        Team member Team member Team member
        Contact us to protect what matters most to you and your loved ones