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Why Everyone Should Have an Estate Plan

Do you have a will? A durable power of attorney? A health care proxy? If so, no reason to read on. If not, why not? Failure to create an estate plan risks causing discord in your family for generations to come.

Posted on July 5, 2021
An older couple discussing essential estate planning documents with their attorney, highlighting the importance of creating a will, durable power of attorney, and health care proxy as part of comprehensive estate planning.

The following are four often stated reasons for not having an estate plan:

  • Just not getting around to it 
  • Feeling that one’s estate is too small to justify a will or revocable trust
  • Believing that joint ownership of accounts with children is an adequate plan
  • Not wanting to pay a lawyer to draw up the plan.

Just Not Getting Around to It

A discussion of why everyone needs an estate plan starts with a consideration of what “estate” means and what “estate plan” means. Your “estate” is simply everything you own: bank accounts, stock, real estate, motor vehicles, jewelry, household furniture, retirement plans, life insurance, etc.

Your estate plan is the means by which you pass your estate to the next generation. This can be accomplished through a variety of instruments. Most retirement plans and life insurance policies pass to whomever you name as beneficiaries. Property that is jointly owned passes to the surviving joint owner. Trust assets go as provided by the terms of the trust.

Only property you hold in your name comes under the instructions laid out in your will. If you don’t have a will, such property passes under the rules of “intestacy” set out in state law. In general, those rules provide that your property will be divided among your closest family members.

Problems often arise when people don’t coordinate all of these methods of passing on their estate. The will may say to divide everything equally among your children, but if you put an account in joint names with one child “for the sake of convenience” there could be a fight about whether that account should be put back in the pool with the rest of your property.

One of the most important aspects of a will is that it names an executor or personal representative to handle the probate of your estate. Litigation can develop simply because family members cannot agree on who should take on this role.

For those with small children, the will is indispensable because it permits you to appoint a guardian in case both parents pass away. It also permits you to choose a trustee to manage your estate for the benefit of your children. This person may or may not be the same as the guardian.

Estate Too Small?

For many individuals, especially those with smaller estates, the most important document is not the will, but a durable power of attorney. Through a durable power of attorney, you can appoint someone to handle your finances in the event that you are ever unable to do so yourself. It also permits you to choose your guardian in case one is ever needed, although one of the main purposes of a durable power of attorney is to avoid such a necessity.

Similar to a durable power of attorney, a health care proxy appoints someone you trust to make medical decisions for you in the event of your incapacity.

While a will protects your estate after you’re gone, a durable power of attorney and health care proxy protect you while you’re still here. 

But I Took Care of It With Joint Accounts

Joint accounts are a poor estate planning tool. It is impossible to keep separate accounts for more than one child equal. This is especially true if you become incapacitated and no longer have control over the accounts. Trying to save a few dollars by managing your estate in this fashion runs the strong risk of causing discord in your family for generations to come. Why take the chance?

But I Don’t Want to Pay a Lawyer a Lot of Money for Some Simple Documents

You can buy software that produces most of the estate planning documents an attorney will prepare for you. And in nine cases out of ten, those documents will do just fine. But how do you know you’re not the tenth case? Do you have a taxable estate? Do you own significant amounts of tax-deferred retirement plans? Do you know how to fund the revocable trust provided on the computer program? Is there anything about your estate that is unusual, such as having a child with disabilities?

In short, if there’s anything about your situation that’s not plain vanilla, you need to see a lawyer. If you have any questions about your estate plan, you need to see a lawyer. As with joint accounts, the problems you may create by not getting competent legal advice probably won’t be yours, but may well be your children’s. Do you want to risk leaving that legacy?

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