What to Do If You’ve Been Appointed Guardian of an Older Adult

Being appointed as a guardian for an older adult is a serious legal and ethical responsibility. It means you have been entrusted to act on behalf of someone who is no longer able to manage their own affairs due to cognitive decline, illness, or other incapacitating conditions. Whether the guardianship is broad or limited in scope, your role is to ensure the well-being, safety, and dignity of the individual, often referred to legally as the “ward.”

Guardianship can cover a range of duties—from making medical decisions to managing finances—and the court order that appoints you will determine what exactly your role entails. Understanding your responsibilities, the legal limitations of your authority, and best practices for day-to-day management is essential to fulfilling this important role effectively.

Understanding Your Role as Guardian

Guardianship is a legal relationship established by a court between a guardian (you) and an incapacitated adult (the ward). The court determines that the ward is no longer capable of making certain decisions and appoints someone to act in their best interest. This may include making decisions about medical care, living arrangements, financial management, or personal well-being, depending on the scope of the guardianship.

It’s important to remember that not all guardianships are the same. The court may grant you authority over the person (medical and personal decisions), the estate (financial and legal matters), or both. Some guardianships are limited—allowing the ward to retain decision-making rights in specific areas—while others are plenary (full), granting broader authority. Always read the court’s guardianship order carefully to understand the exact powers and restrictions that apply to your case.

Read the Court Order Carefully

Your authority stems directly from the guardianship order issued by the court. This legal document outlines your powers, duties, and any limitations. Some decisions, like placing the ward in a long-term care facility or selling property, may require prior court approval even if you are authorized to manage those areas. Ignoring these requirements can result in legal penalties or the revocation of your appointment.

Practical tip: Keep a copy of the court order with you or easily accessible, and highlight or bookmark key sections. If you’re ever unsure about what you’re allowed to do—especially in more complex situations—consult an elder law attorney familiar with guardianship law in your state. This is especially important if you’re dealing with substantial assets or making decisions that may be challenged by other family members.

Acting as a Fiduciary

Guardians are fiduciaries, which means you are legally obligated to act solely in the best interests of the person under your care. This is one of the highest standards of care under the law. You must avoid conflicts of interest, never mix the ward’s finances with your own, and refrain from using their assets for your benefit or for others without court approval.

In practical terms, open a separate bank account for managing the ward’s finances. Keep a detailed log of every transaction, including receipts, dates, amounts, and explanations. For example, if you purchase mobility aids or arrange home repairs, record these clearly. Tools like spreadsheets or financial management software can make record-keeping easier, and they will be indispensable when it’s time to file required court reports.

Meeting Reporting Obligations

Most guardians are required to report to the court on a regular basis. This oversight helps ensure the ward is being treated properly and that their assets are being managed responsibly. Failure to comply can lead to sanctions, removal as guardian, or even legal liability.

Typically, you’ll need to file an initial inventory of the ward’s assets, followed by annual accountings that detail income, expenditures, and major decisions made on the ward’s behalf. A final accounting is usually required when the guardianship ends or the ward passes away. These reports must be accurate and complete. Consider setting calendar reminders for deadlines, and don’t hesitate to hire a CPA or elder law attorney to assist with complex filings or estate issues.

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Supporting the Ward’s Well-Being

Guardianship is not only a legal role. It’s also a personal one. Beyond managing finances or overseeing health care, a guardian plays a key part in protecting the ward’s quality of life. Emotional, social, and psychological well-being are just as important as physical safety. Courts increasingly expect guardians to make decisions that reflect a holistic understanding of the ward’s needs, values, and dignity.

Include the Ward in Decisions

Even when someone has been declared legally incapacitated, they may still be able to express preferences and participate in decisions. As a guardian, you should strive to include the ward in decision-making to the greatest extent possible. Doing so can help preserve their dignity, improve mental health, and foster cooperation.

For instance, if you’re arranging for new housing or selecting a care provider, ask the ward for input if they are able to provide it. Keep them informed about what’s happening in their life and document their wishes when practical. This participatory approach isn’t just compassionate—it’s also consistent with how courts expect guardians to act in a person-centered, respectful manner.

Preserve Social Connections

Social isolation can be deeply harmful to older adults. Unless there is a specific threat or history of abuse, courts generally expect guardians to support and maintain the ward’s relationships with family and friends. In fact, some states have laws protecting a ward’s right to communicate with others, and guardians can face legal challenges if they unduly restrict visits or communication.

Practical guidance: Encourage regular contact with loved ones through calls, visits, or even video chats. If relocation is necessary, consider options that keep the ward close to familiar faces or trusted caregivers. If you must limit contact due to legitimate concerns, make sure to document the reasons and notify the court if required.

Rules in New Jersey

In New Jersey, guardianship proceedings for incapacitated adults fall under the jurisdiction of the Surrogate’s Court and the Superior Court, Chancery Division, Probate Part. A court-appointed guardian may be a guardian of the person (handling medical and personal care decisions), of the estate (handling financial matters), or both. The court determines whether a full or limited guardianship is appropriate based on medical evidence and other testimony.

New Jersey guardians must:

• File a Verified Complaint and two physicians’ certifications or one physician and one psychologist to establish incapacity
• Serve notice to all interested parties
• Attend a hearing before the Superior Court

After appointment, guardians are required to file an Initial Inventory and Annual Reports (Forms A-2 and A-3). The court provides standardized forms for guardians to use, and compliance is monitored by the County Surrogate’s office.

New Jersey also emphasizes the ward’s right to be heard and to participate in the process, including the right to have legal counsel and to object to the guardianship. Alternatives to guardianship, such as power of attorney or supported decision-making, are strongly encouraged where appropriate.

Rules in New York

In New York, guardianship of incapacitated adults is governed by Article 81 of the Mental Hygiene Law. This law is designed to create the least restrictive form of intervention that is tailored to the specific needs of the person. It also allows significant flexibility in crafting guardianships that preserve as much independence as possible.

New York guardianship proceedings involve:

• Filing a petition in the Supreme Court or County Court
• Appointment of a Court Evaluator to assess the case and report to the judge
• A hearing where evidence of incapacity and the need for guardianship is presented

Article 81 guardianships can be limited to personal needs, property management, or both. Guardians must file a report 90 days after appointment and annually thereafter. The court may also require compliance with specific directives tailored to the individual’s situation.

New York courts prioritize autonomy and self-direction for the individual. Guardians are expected to encourage participation in decisions and maintain the person’s rights and dignity to the fullest extent possible. Legal counsel is typically appointed for the person alleged to be incapacitated unless waived by the court.

When to Seek Legal Advice

Guardianship cases often intersect with complex legal and financial issues—especially when dealing with estate planning, Medicaid eligibility, or family conflict. It’s not uncommon for guardians to encounter situations that require court approval, legal filings, or even litigation. Having the right legal support can protect both you and the ward.

If you’re unsure about a decision, facing pushback from family members, or navigating unfamiliar legal terrain, consult with an elder law attorney in your state. These professionals can help interpret the court order, prepare required reports, and advise you on how to stay compliant with both court expectations and fiduciary standards. Legal guidance is especially crucial in contested matters or when your actions as guardian may be scrutinized by others.